One thing that has always bothered me is people who feel the need to put on a facade. That is why I always make it a point to be transparent. If you’ve been following my journey, you know that when I quit my job last year, I felt that it was the best decision I … More Reflecting: What’s Done is Done
I loved so deeply once that the thought of losing my partner made me sick. I couldn’t imagine waking up alone without him, living or breathing without him. I found myself mesmerized by this man and all the things that he did for me. I felt that it was a privilege for me to have … More Cuffing the Side Chick
Disclaimer : Cuffing does not necessarily mean marriage . Drafting/Practice (FOR ME) is growing feelings for, spending extensive time getting to know, and being physically intimate with someone. At this stage of my growth, I personally do not desire to give a title or my body to someone who I wouldn’t want to be raising … More Anti Cuffing Season
Sad Girl “Nobody wants to be with a sad girl.” That’s what she told me. “You walk around looking miserable, that’s not going to attract anyone to you.” I tried to fix my face. I tried to make myself look happy like all the other girls. But it didn’t work. No matter how hard I … More RTR: Realizing that I’m Jealous and Envious
The Psychology of a Black Woman Similar to a Blackbird except there doesn’t seem to be a term for me anymore Like this world’s denial of my history and its insistence on progression has filled all the space Including the small corner where I once sought comfort It was familiar At least there they knew … More The Psychology of a Black Woman
A long time ago in a galaxy far far away before I was this amazing happily married man, I was a hoe. This was something that my wife and I had a long discussion about while we were dating and she was highly shocked. The somewhat quiet black nerd with glasses that she knew simply … More Maybe Hoe Is Life
Have you ever been in love with a man that was just the whole package? Nice car, good job, smelled like expensive sh*and had the gift of gab. Almost to the point that you worshiped the ground he walked on. Had you all in love and obsessed with his little friend. Just for him to … More A Waste of a Cheat !
Yes sis, we know you want him to get off of you sometimes so you fake a few moans, act out something you’ve seen in a bad porno and somehow think you’re doing yourself a favor. You’re guilty, we all are. I’ve learned that even the most selfish men often want to feel like they … More Faking It!
Hey everybody! Since the beginning of time, people have been trying and experimenting with different things sexually. Have you recently been thinking of new ways to spice up your sex life? I have created an A-Z guide with suggestions of things to incorporate in the bedroom (or out of the bedroom). Check it out and … More An A-Z Guide to Spicing It Up
We were bound to cross paths; finally come face to face because those late night texts were getting intense. All that talk about how much you wanted me. All that talk about how you’d do my body. It was time to see if all that talk had action behind it. I hopped in my car; … More TSS – “Drank & Sativa”
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