My Life Be Like

DBC Vol 1: Gang Gang

Welcome back to your lesson: the price is free, but just make sure that you pay close attention. Whenever it comes to money everyone speaks fast and hates repeating themselves, so what makes you think that I’m any different? Every lesson is connected -- every single one, no matter what you are told. You don’t… Continue reading DBC Vol 1: Gang Gang

Hidden Gems

Meet Melaysia Sekai

I met Melaysia about a year ago on Instagram. Scrolling around I came across her page and seen that she had just recently self published her collection of poetry "Butterfly." At the time I still hadn't even thought too much about how I would publish my first book. So I started mini stalking her to… Continue reading Meet Melaysia Sekai


How Anxiety Affects My Ability to Network

I consider myself an extremely awkward person. Even though it may not seem like it to some people, I get terrible anxiety sometimes when it comes to social interactions. I have been this way my whole life, but now I realize that I need to put myself out there more if I want to be… Continue reading How Anxiety Affects My Ability to Network


Employed AF

It's crazy how life can change so quickly. As of last Monday, I officially have a new job! I was starting to panic seeing that it was almost December and I had officially been unemployed for two months, but I continued to apply and got offered a position at an attic insulation company. At first… Continue reading Employed AF

Go Awf!

Top Five Places a Black Man Can Find a “Wifey”

The other day my home girl was at a wine festival on Twitter and the caption read “Where are all the fine men at?” and my first thought was it must have been the city that she lives in, because men go to wine festivals RIGHT??? I mean we like wine and shit too don’t we?… Continue reading Top Five Places a Black Man Can Find a “Wifey”

Go Awf!

The Tech Bubble: Finding Safe Spaces for POC in The Silicon Valley

When it comes to the Bay Area, it’s a special place filled with diversity, booming tech businesses that collide with art and budding communities, historical landmarks and more. Each area of the Bay has its own style and flair, and we can’t help but be proud of where our roots in the Bay have grounded… Continue reading The Tech Bubble: Finding Safe Spaces for POC in The Silicon Valley


Sick of Adulting (The 411)

Today was such an awful day for me that I don't know what else to do but write. The first reason is work. I have been at this new job for like three months now and I like it a lot, but I have a lot of responsibilities and everything is very tedious. I have… Continue reading Sick of Adulting (The 411)


Before I Post the Last Post…

I would like to thank everyone for reading The Boyfriend Series. It is difficult for me to open up sometimes, so I appreciate you reliving my relationship journey with me. I was hesitating to start this series, because I didn't want to appear stupid, incompetent or ignorant. However, I am glad that I did it.… Continue reading Before I Post the Last Post…


Single Life

So I have been single for almost a year now. Usually I have someone I am talking to or dating, but right now I don't and I love it. The thing that made me stop entertaining random men was a conversation I had with a temporary friend. I only knew this man for like a… Continue reading Single Life


Tomorrow is the Big Day!

Hi! Let me update you guys one time for the one time: BIRTHDAY PARTY TOMORROW... Tomorrow is the big day... my birthday party 🙂 I am super excited because all my favorite people will be in one place. Even though I am celebrating 10 days in advance, it doesn't even matter. Having everyone there turnt… Continue reading Tomorrow is the Big Day!