There has been this common misconception that women can/have “changed“ a man. There is almost a gloating when a woman has dealt with a childish man, his lies, cheating and emotional immaturity and then he one day changes. The sad truth behind this, that I do not think women sometimes realize is that the credit we … More You Ain’t The Reason
There’s nothing more disappointing than being ready for love and not having the right candidate. Having options is great, but it will never compare to having a king who prioritizes your companionship. When a man solidifies his connection with a woman, it lets us know that “it’s real” and not just momentary. This solid foundation is … More Mr. Right Now (part I)
Guys (literally)… You have got to stop calling and texting me after 11pm. There’s only one of two things you could want from me at that time and I know it’s not because you have an emergency. It’s like have some fucking manners, please. Not only am I a mom, but also if you haven’t … More I’m Not Your Fun Girl
For most of my life I had always been the girl that had a boyfriend. Having a guy was like having my favorite accessory on and when I didn’t have it I felt like something was missing. When one guy left there was always another waiting close by. I was boo’d up so much that … More 6 Years Single & Over Dating
If you haven’t watched the season finale of Insecure I suggest you ignore this article until you finish the season. If you’ve had the chance to enjoy all the drama, keep on reading because baby do I have some shit to say. First of all I’m going to start off with, WE ALL SEEN IT … More Side Baby: Could You Accept Your Significant Others?
Now I’m going to tell you from the jump that I do not consider myself to be the master of sex. I’ve had some bad sexual experiences but also some amazing sexual experiences. I’m simply sharing with you the several experiences that I went through so that you can learn from them. To quote the … More Always Clean Your Plate Off
I’m back again and today I’m going to dive a little deeper into twin flames aka your mirror. If you read my previous article, Can Your Soul Mate Be Toxic, you already got a little glimpse into what a twin flame is and the signs that’ll help you know if you’ve come across one or … More 7 Stages Of A Twin Flame
So you had your eyes and heart wide open as soon as 2019 hit, hoping to finally attract something worth keeping throughout the year and on to the next year but after a few months in, it was a total hit & miss. A few guys put in their bids, but nothing caught your full … More Were You Cuffed Enough to Celebrate the Holidays as a Couple in 2019?
Hey ya’ll! It is now Cuffing Season and trust me, you gotta do this right. You don’t want to mess around and end up in a relationship. The sole purpose of this season is to stay warm and avoid being alone til the Spring time. Here is a foolproof plan to have a successful Cuffing … More Cuffing Season Rules 4 the Ladies
Earlier this year I was determined to find the perfect guy. I discovered an app called BLK, which was marketed as Tinder for black people. I downloaded the app and set my standards- must have a job, must be in early 30’s, must be taller than me, must have no kids. I was excited to … More The Inspiration Behind James