At this moment, this very moment in my life, there’s nothing that I can say I’m truly missing. I don’t feel stressed, I’m not worried about how much or how little money I have in my account, and most of all I’m not longing to be loved by a man. I don’t have many friends, … More Are You Taking Life For Granted?
People say dwelling on the past isn’t healthy and we should focus on the present and hope to have a better future. I understand it, but I also don’t. I feel like most of my happier moments in life are all complied in a file, that is my past. I was happy, I was free, … More Trapped In My Past
As a sexuality professional, I get all kinds of questions. People volunteer to tell me about their sexapades and base conversations on assumptions they’ve made about me. Although it’s funny to hear about yourself from others, I’m going to take this time to answer the question: Why sex? Why Sex? I’ve always been interested in … More Intersextional Thinking: Why Sex??
Empath : noun (chiefly in science fiction) A person with the paranormal ability to apprehend the mental state of another individual. What’s wrong? Are you happy? Are you sure you’re happy? What’s making you question your happiness? Do you have the peace you’ve been praying for? Have you been protecting your peace? Are you listening … More Me as an Empath
For the first time in years, I’ve found myself genuinely happy. Usually my happiness would be connected to a person, place, or tangible thing. It was based on how good life was around me. It wasn’t based around me being the primary source for my happiness. That has been my biggest lesson on my spiritual … More Why I Won’t Feel Guilty for Being Happy
At some point in our lives, we’ve been exposed to people that aren’t who they appear to be. Sometimes they’re our friends, coworkers, or even our family. They show up to our events, like our posts, and even give their “genuine” advice. They appear to love us so genuinely. However, all love isn’t what we … More Fake Love is Flattery
Life is short but the journey to happiness seems never ending. You take ten steps forward just to take ten back. Starting back at zero, wondering if there is anywhere left for you to go. Should you start over again or let it be whatever it’s going to be? You say your goodbyes and thank those you love. Unsure … More If You Left
On several occasions I’ve found myself running back to what’s and/or who is familiar to me and it most cases the outcome has always been the same. I’m sitting there regretting making a U-Turn to go back to the place I’ve left for a specific reason, wishing I would have stuck with my first mind … More Running Back To An Ex… Don’t Do It!
The thoughts of having a love life and career I enjoy always plague my mind. I’ve found myself pondering over exactly what I want and how I will go about achieving it. Then, fear and the thought of not being enough place even more doubt in my head. What if I’m just not deserving of … More Refusing to Settle
At eighteen I had a plan and at twenty-one I was sure I’d see it through. Then 25 came and I will admit fear kicked in but I still had high hopes of everything being alright. Now, here I am at 30, feeling as if I’m barely surviving; wondering when is the next time I’m … More 30 & Barely Thriving