My Life Be Like, sexperts

InterSEXtional Thinking: Accessing Your Sexual Agency

In January 2021, the soulful goddess Jazmine Sullivan dropped an EP that sent the sexologist in me on a spiral! I loved her collection, Heaux Tales, from the title to the finish. The interludes, the passion, yes. Although she did her thing, this article isn’t an ode to the greatness that is Jazmine Sullivan. Instead,… Continue reading InterSEXtional Thinking: Accessing Your Sexual Agency

My Life Be Like

Off Birth Control & I’m (Slowly) Back

Photo by Gabby K on Pexels.com I started taking birth control when I was about 17 and continued to take it until I was about 23. Needless to say the minute I got off of it I ended with a child; He's six now! Three years ago I got on it again after slipping up… Continue reading Off Birth Control & I’m (Slowly) Back

My Life Be Like, short story

Doing It Well Finale

We pulled up at Drago’s and part of me was still excited from what had just happened. As I went to open the door, Quan grabbed my hand... “I know I promised dinner, but could we get this to go,” he said. “Yeah, if that’s what you’re comfortable with,” I said happily.  “Cool, I’ll get… Continue reading Doing It Well Finale

Hidden Gems, Reviews, sexperts

Finding the Best Vibe: Orgasm Motor Magic Wand Massager Review

Welcome to Finding The Best Vibe w/ Misha Frazier! I’ve partnered with BestVibe.com to give y’all the ins and outs on some adult toys y’all might want to add to your collection🙂 Enjoy and I'll keep you updated! Click here to order the Orgasm Motor Magic Wand Massager! https://youtu.be/6vZGcTIIEGE

My Life Be Like, sexperts

Intersextional Thinking: Masturbation Madness

Hey my loves, May is not only Mental Health Month, but also National Masturbation Month! What better way to celebrate than by igniting a conversation about self care?! We're discussing the taboo act that most individuals privately partake! Enjoy.  When we invest in relationships, we tend to merge our varying lifestyles, personalities, and habits. The nail-biting,… Continue reading Intersextional Thinking: Masturbation Madness

My Life Be Like, sexperts

Always Clean Your Plate Off

Now I'm going to tell you from the jump that I do not consider myself to be the master of sex. I've had some bad sexual experiences but also some amazing sexual experiences. I'm simply sharing with you the several experiences that I went through so that you can learn from them. To quote the… Continue reading Always Clean Your Plate Off

My Life Be Like, sexperts

Why it benefits MEN to give WOMEN head

Chileeeeee. I was on FaceTime with one of my good girlfriends having a Rona happy hour, and we got to talking about what separates the boys from the men. She a whollllllle therapist honey, so she starting talking about emotional openness and communication skills like the educated woman that she is. BUT ME? I haddd… Continue reading Why it benefits MEN to give WOMEN head

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Faking It!

Yes sis, we know you want him to get off of you sometimes so you fake a few moans, act out something you’ve seen in a bad porno and somehow think you’re doing yourself a favor. You’re guilty, we all are. I’ve learned that even the most selfish men often want to feel like they… Continue reading Faking It!