Lately there have been a lot of posts floating around social media regarding “red flags”. Seeing these posts on social media reinforced one thing I already knew: we are ALL living the exact same life lol. As I’ve read all the red flags people have posted, there’s one that I realized I’ve observed that I … More Some Men Just Can’t Handle A Boss B*tch
1. Just breathe 2. Continue to breathe deep belly breaths 3. Wash your face & brush your hair 4. Put a face mask on and oil your scalp 5. Listen to soothing sounds when you go to sleep 6. Tell yourself I Love You and mean it a minimum of 20X a day 7. Ask … More Self Care Check List
As a sexuality professional, I get all kinds of questions. People volunteer to tell me about their sexapades and base conversations on assumptions they’ve made about me. Although it’s funny to hear about yourself from others, I’m going to take this time to answer the question: Why sex? Why Sex? I’ve always been interested in … More Intersextional Thinking: Why Sex??
I never know where I stand with you. Yet here I am on my hands and knees for you. Catering to you until I bleed and bruise. Bowing down to you when I’m the one who should be being catered to. I never know where I stand with you. Yet here I am laying in … More Never Know
On January 25, I left my job, not knowing it would be my last day. After 18 months of various situations, my last day wasn’t even by my own doing. I left that day under the impression that my paid leave was temporary. That leave turned into two months, then a termination. As an educator, … More Losing My Job=Freedom
As much as I’m not suppose to want to know I want to know What the fuck could you possibly say after everything that happened and all the time that’s past I haven’t healed from that one yet As l sit here and watch you watch me heal from all the shit that hit me before I even met you
Guys (literally)… You have got to stop calling and texting me after 11pm. There’s only one of two things you could want from me at that time and I know it’s not because you have an emergency. It’s like have some fucking manners, please. Not only am I a mom, but also if you haven’t … More I’m Not Your Fun Girl
I have a fear of coming out because of the fear that I will lose family and friends. Some people think this is cowardice. Some people think I am hiding or pretending. “If you were really bi, then you wouldn’t care about losing them”. But losing a family is hard. Losing friends is hard. Losing … More The Fear of Coming Out
Looking back at my story, I realized that I was built to last. I was built for more than the struggles that I faced. Looking at this past year, I realized how strong I am. I realized that life isn’t easy. Adulthood is INEVITABLE. Pain is TEMPORARY. Love is NECESSARY. Decision making is AWKWARD. Chances … More Surviving The Transition
we were friends for many years we began to grow apart i started a bigger conversation she blocked me and it broke my heart.