Whew, chile this gone be touchy and rub a lot of people wrong but guess who does not care. Let me just start out by saying that I mean every word, I do not care who likes it, and is it time to speak about real facts. Do yall not know that your friends can … More FRI(END)
Opening myself up is hard to do, especially because not everyone knows how to be geniune and true. I’ve been betrayed so many times that I have this mega wall built up and whenever someone is close to breaking it down something happens that causes me to start rebuilding it. I’m going through it as … More Give Me Consistency or Nothing At All.
Finally, a male perspective on dating, relationships, and marriage! Tune in as we discuss mind vs. body with our very first male guest Mr. Dwight.
Looking back at my story, I realized that I was built to last. I was built for more than the struggles that I faced. Looking at this past year, I realized how strong I am. I realized that life isn’t easy. Adulthood is INEVITABLE. Pain is TEMPORARY. Love is NECESSARY. Decision making is AWKWARD. Chances … More Surviving The Transition
A couple months into working at my job, I heard my boss on a phone call in her office. She was clearly upset, crying and screaming and I started to feel really bad. At some point in her call she yelled out “IM DOING MY BEST!… IM DOING MY BEST!” That is exactly how I … More Umm, I Don’t Know What To Call This
Have you experienced everything going left at the wrong time? You’re uncomfortable with your friends, your significant other and frustrated with the life you worked so hard to establish. You begin to question the intent of people and the significance of certain aspects of your life. Life just seems so chaotic in a sense. Chaos … More Keeping Calm in Chaos
Ever since I’ve returned to the United States from my vacation in Colombia, I have been attempting to put into words the magic that was Palenque. The locals of the town call it Africa in Colombia because when Cartagena got its independence from Spain, they fled to Palenque and developed the first free African nation … More Africa In Colombia
Ladies and Gentlemen, this has been a great debate for a long time. The ironic thing about this topic was a statement on Instagram. I was scrolling through my feed, and I follow “The Shade Room,” and the following statement was, “Tattoos and piercings should not be considered unprofessional.” You ask me why? Why this … More Tattoos and Piercings vs Professional World
Empath : noun (chiefly in science fiction) A person with the paranormal ability to apprehend the mental state of another individual. What’s wrong? Are you happy? Are you sure you’re happy? What’s making you question your happiness? Do you have the peace you’ve been praying for? Have you been protecting your peace? Are you listening … More Me as an Empath
Hey my loves! Happy Pride to Black trans-women first, then my fellow Black lesbians, and everybody else too! Most years, Pride Month would ignite a bunch of memories about coming out but this year is different. I’m not sure if it’s because I’ve been waking up feeling gay gay (shoutowt to my Fiancé) or because … More Intersextional Thinking: Committed to Pride!