History… My History

Standing out in the fields under a scorching sun Arrested under the fear of whips and rabid dogs Forced to pick cotton or reproduce, whether we wanted to or not Sounds like history… my history.   Perched on our hands and knees until they bled dark red Scrubbing floors, washing dishes, cleaning windows Using gritty … More History… My History

“I’ m Not Obligated” : Why Taking on Other Peoples Problems is Not Your Job

If you’re anything like me your friends and family are your top priority. Almost to the point that they come before you in almost every aspect. You are there any time they call. You lend them money any time they need, help them move, or just listen to them “vent”. But then at the end … More “I’ m Not Obligated” : Why Taking on Other Peoples Problems is Not Your Job

The Misconceptions Between the “Baby Mama” and “Baby Daddy”

Being a mother, I have experienced my fair share of issues. Me and my older children’s father were young and still children ourselves when we had our kids. So many fights, disagreements on parenting styles and then the family. LORD the family feuds back and forth. Until one day I gave up! I told myself … More The Misconceptions Between the “Baby Mama” and “Baby Daddy”

Misha’s Room Episode 3: The Reconstruction

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!! I hope you’ve been enjoying 2019 so far, and thank you for bringing me along (a lot of people got left in 2018 haha). Welcome back to Misha’s Room, loves! This episode is about reconstructing yourself. People say ‘new year, new me’ but we rarely discuss the difficulties of the growing process. … More Misha’s Room Episode 3: The Reconstruction

Dating and the Single Mother: is she “worthy”

As if single mothers don’t have enough on their plates the last they need is PLUS ONE! It’s become more and more common that men don’t want anything serious with single mothers but sex, a meal and the occasional bill pay! NO SIR not around these parts! Single mothers are hardworking and looking for stability. … More Dating and the Single Mother: is she “worthy”

Shop These 5 Lewks To Stunt On Your Cousins For The Holidays

You made it through Thanksgiving, but if your family is like mine there are at least three more times this holiday season (Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, New Years Day) that you have to endure the good, bad, and ugly that comes with bringing all your relatives together in one place. With that said, you need … More Shop These 5 Lewks To Stunt On Your Cousins For The Holidays

Living in My Nissan

When I quit my job, I really didn’t take my living situation into consideration. I have been renting a room in a three bedroom house in Hayward,CA. since January. However, it has been a very rocky road, because me and my roommates have had a plethora of issues and disagreements. It got to the point … More Living in My Nissan