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Foreplay IS Sex

Why do we only call something sex once there has been an insertion of a penis into a vagina? We know and understand how this removes non-heterosexuality from a discussion; however, I never thought how limiting "sex" to penetration was damaging to heterosexual women or why.  As always, these are my personal opinions and have… Continue reading Foreplay IS Sex

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Genital Reveal > Gender Reveal

Throughout the 1990s and 2000s, I watched my mama lug cases of pampers to her pregnant friends' baby showers, and as the mid-2010s rolled around, teenage pregnancy in the Black community led me to attend a few baby showers of my own. I found pleasure in our remixed versions of the word scramble games, clothespin… Continue reading Genital Reveal > Gender Reveal

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Finding the Best Vibe: Orgasm Motor Magic Wand Massager Review

Welcome to Finding The Best Vibe w/ Misha Frazier! I’ve partnered with BestVibe.com to give y’all the ins and outs on some adult toys y’all might want to add to your collection🙂 Enjoy and I'll keep you updated! Click here to order the Orgasm Motor Magic Wand Massager! https://youtu.be/6vZGcTIIEGE

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Finding the Best Vibe: Thrusting Power Telescopic Penis Review

Welcome to Finding The Best Vibe w/ Misha Frazier! I’ve partnered with BestVibe.com to give y’all the ins and outs on some adult toys y’all might want to add to your collection🙂 Enjoy and I'll keep you updated! Here's where you can find the Thrusting Power Telescopic Penis! https://youtu.be/EUEe93dfGeE

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Quarantine Pussy

With the current state of the world and the pervasive devaluing of black bodies, I need vitamin D. Its like, no matter what we do or how we protest, its a problem for the WYPIPO. And just so we're clear, vitamin D isn't sunlight or orange juice. I'm talking flesh, girth, stroke, pleasure. Sex is… Continue reading Quarantine Pussy

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Intersextional Thinking: Did Society Break my Pussy?

As I sat in my living room thinking about the last time I had the urge to have sex, I couldn’t help but wonder if society was responsible for my “broken pussy.” I know this may seem a little far-fetched, but this is a real question I had to ask myself! The "broken pussy" concept… Continue reading Intersextional Thinking: Did Society Break my Pussy?

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Intersextional Thinking: Masturbation Madness

Hey my loves, May is not only Mental Health Month, but also National Masturbation Month! What better way to celebrate than by igniting a conversation about self care?! We're discussing the taboo act that most individuals privately partake! Enjoy.  When we invest in relationships, we tend to merge our varying lifestyles, personalities, and habits. The nail-biting,… Continue reading Intersextional Thinking: Masturbation Madness

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Are UNICORNS Special?

Even as a "SEXPERT," which I say loosely, I had no idea what the HELL "Unicorn Sex" was. According to our research, a unicorn is a woman that enjoys having intercourse with couples in prearranged threesomes. "Oh, I can write about that," I thought once I found out what it was.But to be candid, I… Continue reading Are UNICORNS Special?

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The Life of a Unicorn

Unicorn /ˈyo͞onəˌkôrn/ noun: A bisexual girl who is down to hook up with generally heterosexual, monogamous couples, often as a no-strings-attached threesome or as a permanent sexual partner. Not the definition you were thinking was it? The life of a unicorn is more than being a sexual companion to a couple. Typically, the process of… Continue reading The Life of a Unicorn

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Always Clean Your Plate Off

Now I'm going to tell you from the jump that I do not consider myself to be the master of sex. I've had some bad sexual experiences but also some amazing sexual experiences. I'm simply sharing with you the several experiences that I went through so that you can learn from them. To quote the… Continue reading Always Clean Your Plate Off