Why do ya’ll keep doing this to me man? I keep telling myself I’m just going to chill back for a minute because sometimes I can be too much and it takes time to process. But hey, we’re here again, so let’s get to the fuckery. I’ll tell you guys an actual hoe story. I … More Dwight’s Tale: Why Ya’ll Hoes Still Dressed?
Have you ever been at a party or just chilling with whoever and topic comes up, “Where’s the craziest place you’ve ever had sex?” Maybe it’s just me because as a sexologist, sex conversations are normalized. I won’t front, this is one of my favorite things to talk about because it reveals so much. People … More Misha’s Tale: The Hotel
After my last dick appointment, I just knew I was about to hit a dry spell. Our farewell session ended right before quarantine and since we had no ties or titles that was it, it was over. I was ready to enter the drought season and I was actually okay with it. It was fun … More Lili’s Tale : Waterfalls in the Desert
The truth is that I cared about both of them. I never really intended to run game on either; it was just circumstances of how life unfolded. Both of them had taught me so much about myself and the world around me. I paid attention to the things happening around me, but I was a … More Necia’s Tale: 9 to 5
I had just been broken up with and I had been busting it open expeditiously. All I wanted was someone to “care about me” and give me attention. None of the men I met online were consistent enough, so I continued to swipe. Mid February, I met Lance. After continuous messages from grown ass men … More Michaela’s Tale: Random Chick Shows Up
So I kept seeing this one guy every time I went out —Tall, light-skin, green eyes and covered in tattoos. The more I seen him the more I became intrigued. I wanted to know who he was, what he did and if I could get closer to him. After-all, he was a pretty popular guy … More Sydney’s Tale: The D Wasn’t Enough
The year was 2018, I was 22, and my friend was having a lingerie party for her birthday. She talked to this guy who lived on communication hill, and his dad, brother, and cousin all lived around the corner. So obviously, all of them were at the party as well. This was not the first … More Lacey’s Tale: Bye Wig
In January 2021, the soulful goddess Jazmine Sullivan dropped an EP that sent the sexologist in me on a spiral! I loved her collection, Heaux Tales, from the title to the finish. The interludes, the passion, yes. Although she did her thing, this article isn’t an ode to the greatness that is Jazmine Sullivan. Instead, … More InterSEXtional Thinking: Accessing Your Sexual Agency
Why do we only call something sex once there has been an insertion of a penis into a vagina? We know and understand how this removes non-heterosexuality from a discussion; however, I never thought how limiting “sex” to penetration was damaging to heterosexual women or why. As always, these are my personal opinions and have … More Foreplay IS Sex
Throughout the 1990s and 2000s, I watched my mama lug cases of pampers to her pregnant friends’ baby showers, and as the mid-2010s rolled around, teenage pregnancy in the Black community led me to attend a few baby showers of my own. I found pleasure in our remixed versions of the word scramble games, clothespin … More Genital Reveal > Gender Reveal
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