“Why are you trying to ruin my life?” “Ruin your life? What is there to ruin Amber? You barely have it figured out.” “I have a lot figured out,” she lied. “Like what? You’re a 21-year-old dropout, who refuses to look for work. And before you even attempt to feed me that I’ve got a … More Better Left Unsaid (Part I)
Have you ever told yourself that when you become a parent you aren’t going to do this, that and the third? I’m more than guilty of it. I didn’t have this huge list of things I wasn’t going to do, but I did have a pretty good Idea of what I’d be like as a … More You Never Know… Until You Become A Parent
At this moment, this very moment in my life, there’s nothing that I can say I’m truly missing. I don’t feel stressed, I’m not worried about how much or how little money I have in my account, and most of all I’m not longing to be loved by a man. I don’t have many friends, … More Are You Taking Life For Granted?
People say dwelling on the past isn’t healthy and we should focus on the present and hope to have a better future. I understand it, but I also don’t. I feel like most of my happier moments in life are all complied in a file, that is my past. I was happy, I was free, … More Trapped In My Past
Dating isn’t easy and when it comes to me & my personal life, I just prefer not to do it, especially with this never-ending COVID mess going on in the world. I can’t even think about getting too close to a person without freaking out about deadly germs coming my way. Though the pandemic has … More Multiple Kids… DealBreaker or Not?
These days dating for me is pretty nonexistent. In every direction I turn, I see red flags coming at me. It’s the quickest way to send me running back to my safe place. I used to stick around to see where things would go, even after having all the flags thrown in my face. That … More #GreenFlags: He Made It Hard For the Rest
First, you need to do whatever they tell you to because that’s the only way anyone seems to think they can remain happy… Yeah…NO! That’s not what this article is going to be about. I’m not going to sit here and write you a 10 Ways To Keep A Man/Woman article because quite frankly those … More Do You Wanna Know How… To Keep A Wo(man)?
Halloween is right around the corner and for most that may mean eating a shit load of candy, dressing like a whore (it’s cute) and getting wasted. If you’re a mom you’re probably getting your kids all dressed up in multiple costumes (school & Halloween night), passing out candy, taking the kids trick or treating … More What’s Your Favorite Scary Movie?
The kids are back in school! Thank goodness! I was nervous about the idea of sending my son back to in-person instruction, but so far all has been good. He seems to be happy, he’s making friends again, the teachers are kind and the school is one of the best in the city. For almost … More The Stress of The Pandemic Helped Me Co-Parent.
Something draws me into you no matter how hard I try to resist. I’ll ignore you for months on in, but I haven’t let go. They say soul ties existent and I’ve never been sure if it’s true. I remember you mentioning it a time or two. You told me you’re here to say and … More Soul Ties