I’m No Longer Superwoman or the Strong Friend in This Season

I have no desire to be Superwoman anymore, and I have no desire to be the friend that has it all together. I don’t want to do it all, and I damn sure don’t want to be anything strong this season. I’m healing, and the only thing I desire is authentically being myself. An eye-opening … More I’m No Longer Superwoman or the Strong Friend in This Season

Friendly Fire

It was only supposed to be a one-time thing. But here I was reminiscing on how it went down the third time and the fourth. This time was different, though; it had happened so much that I lost track of the number. I waited for our usual meet-up and imagined what I would do if … More Friendly Fire

I’m Emotionally Unavailable, but I like you…

Help Wanted: Single Black Female Seeks Love while Being Emotionally Available It was a typical Monday on my commute to work when it hit me—I’m emotionally unavailable. I’ve said it before, but the actual realization hit me like bricks. I’m not sure what triggered this realization, but it took everything to hold back my tears. … More I’m Emotionally Unavailable, but I like you…

Keeping Calm in Chaos

Have you experienced everything going left at the wrong time? You’re uncomfortable with your friends, your significant other and frustrated with the life you worked so hard to establish. You begin to question the intent of people and the significance of certain aspects of your life. Life just seems so chaotic in a sense. Chaos … More Keeping Calm in Chaos