Kobe Mode

I’m going Kobe Mode! That’s what I use to tell myself or at least think to myself as I prepared to take on a task alone. The reason behind the name is none other than the late great basketball legend Kobe Bryant, one of my favorite basketball players and public figures. Growing up, I remember … More Kobe Mode

Mr. Right Now (part I)

There’s nothing more disappointing than being ready for love and not having the right candidate.  Having options is great, but it will never compare to having a king who prioritizes your companionship. When a man solidifies his connection with a woman, it lets us know that “it’s real” and not just momentary.  This solid foundation is … More Mr. Right Now (part I)

I’m Emotionally Unavailable, but I like you…

Help Wanted: Single Black Female Seeks Love while Being Emotionally Available It was a typical Monday on my commute to work when it hit me—I’m emotionally unavailable. I’ve said it before, but the actual realization hit me like bricks. I’m not sure what triggered this realization, but it took everything to hold back my tears. … More I’m Emotionally Unavailable, but I like you…

Never Know

I never know where I stand with you. Yet here I am on my hands and knees for you. Catering to you until I bleed and bruise. Bowing down to you when I’m the one who should be being catered to. I never know where I stand with you. Yet here I am laying in … More Never Know