Halloween is right around the corner and for most that may mean eating a shit load of candy, dressing like a whore (it’s cute) and getting wasted. If you’re a mom you’re probably getting your kids all dressed up in multiple costumes (school & Halloween night), passing out candy, taking the kids trick or treating … More What’s Your Favorite Scary Movie?
Is Drake the Official Certified Lover Boy? Did Ye make his mother proud? In this episode, our Kings compare the Certified Lover Boy and Donda albums.
The kids are back in school! Thank goodness! I was nervous about the idea of sending my son back to in-person instruction, but so far all has been good. He seems to be happy, he’s making friends again, the teachers are kind and the school is one of the best in the city. For almost … More The Stress of The Pandemic Helped Me Co-Parent.
As a sexuality professional, I get all kinds of questions. People volunteer to tell me about their sexapades and base conversations on assumptions they’ve made about me. Although it’s funny to hear about yourself from others, I’m going to take this time to answer the question: Why sex? Why Sex? I’ve always been interested in … More Intersextional Thinking: Why Sex??
Something draws me into you no matter how hard I try to resist. I’ll ignore you for months on in, but I haven’t let go. They say soul ties existent and I’ve never been sure if it’s true. I remember you mentioning it a time or two. You told me you’re here to say and … More Soul Ties
Help Wanted: Single Black Female Seeks Love while Being Emotionally Available It was a typical Monday on my commute to work when it hit me—I’m emotionally unavailable. I’ve said it before, but the actual realization hit me like bricks. I’m not sure what triggered this realization, but it took everything to hold back my tears. … More I’m Emotionally Unavailable, but I like you…
I never know where I stand with you. Yet here I am on my hands and knees for you. Catering to you until I bleed and bruise. Bowing down to you when I’m the one who should be being catered to. I never know where I stand with you. Yet here I am laying in … More Never Know
The sound of crickets and the dark always bring me peace Makes me think of summer nights in Stockton dancing on sesame street That’s what we called it cause there were hella kids Something like family, way more than friends On the fourth of july we’d flood the street Two claps, right now, we said … More Stockton Summers on Sesame Street
I jumped into my car with no regrets for what was about to happen. If he had loved me correctly, then this could have been avoided. Hearing the signs of the Draco was like music to my ears. I knew the mission was done and it was time for me to exit. I made my way … More Pleasure and Pain III
On January 25, I left my job, not knowing it would be my last day. After 18 months of various situations, my last day wasn’t even by my own doing. I left that day under the impression that my paid leave was temporary. That leave turned into two months, then a termination. As an educator, … More Losing My Job=Freedom