Black & White

You know what?… I bet you the only culture or population of people who are not afraid to be unapologetically themselves are white people. Like have you ever really thought about that? Because when I think about it I am terrified. Terrified to be Black in front of Black people because my blackness might not … More Black & White

The N Word

I can say Nigga. I can say Nigga and still demand respect. I can say My Nigga, My Nigga and still be simply me. I’ve decided that I can say Nigga, just like every white person can hide behind their skin. It’s just the privilege we’re born with.

Blood Diamond

Black History Month is triggering. This is the one time a year that you see top notch brands finding ways to make their non-inclusive selves all inclusive. It’s hurtful and sad as hell. They think that if they use an image of a Black person or an African print they’re paying mad respect to the … More Blood Diamond

Rebirth

There’s a rebirth happening. I don’t really know much about it right now… I just know things are changing. Big changes are coming. I can just feel it.

Dear Mary Jane,

Hey girl, hey! Just wanted to take some time to thank you for your growth. Without you, I would be a drug addict probably… doped up on prescription meds, searching for my next high to take the edge off. Since you came into my life things have never been the same. You have allowed me … More Dear Mary Jane,

#10 Year Challenge

I’m changing so much. So I’ve been reading about self compassion and the pros because there’s absolutely no cons to the newfound self appreciation. Now what l have learned about self compassion is it’s much different than self-esteem. Self-esteem is something our ego likes to control in order to validate ourselves. Or simpler, it’s just … More #10 Year Challenge