You know what?… I bet you the only culture or population of people who are not afraid to be unapologetically themselves are white people. Like have you ever really thought about that? Because when I think about it I am terrified. Terrified to be Black in front of Black people because my blackness might not … More Black & White
Use your creativity to express yourself in love. Be the partner of your own dreams. Be the person you desire to be with. Be the person you desire to have. Have you first. You are only an expression of your love.
I can say Nigga. I can say Nigga and still demand respect. I can say My Nigga, My Nigga and still be simply me. I’ve decided that I can say Nigga, just like every white person can hide behind their skin. It’s just the privilege we’re born with.
Black History Month is triggering. This is the one time a year that you see top notch brands finding ways to make their non-inclusive selves all inclusive. It’s hurtful and sad as hell. They think that if they use an image of a Black person or an African print they’re paying mad respect to the … More Blood Diamond
There’s a rebirth happening. I don’t really know much about it right now… I just know things are changing. Big changes are coming. I can just feel it.
How the fuck do you sleep at night? How the fuck do you sleep at night? How the FUCK do you sleep at night?! Knowing that you hurt me…
Texas is so annoying right now! Google it… Google: Texas September 1st, 2021 I’m trying to take as many deep breaths as possible so that I can just get this off my chest and be done with it… For the time being… Well until another rant of expression comes up. Texas, why are you so … More Feeling Some Type Of Way
Hey girl, hey! Just wanted to take some time to thank you for your growth. Without you, I would be a drug addict probably… doped up on prescription meds, searching for my next high to take the edge off. Since you came into my life things have never been the same. You have allowed me … More Dear Mary Jane,
I just finished watching MAID on Netflix. Tears are still rolling down my cheeks. Especially when it comes to Alex and stepping into her world of domestic violence. Very well written and filmed. What if l told you that l was Alex and my bruises are all healed now? Most nights l can’t sleep. l … More TRUE LIFE: The Part Of Me I’ve Been Hiding
I’m changing so much. So I’ve been reading about self compassion and the pros because there’s absolutely no cons to the newfound self appreciation. Now what l have learned about self compassion is it’s much different than self-esteem. Self-esteem is something our ego likes to control in order to validate ourselves. Or simpler, it’s just … More #10 Year Challenge