The words that we use to describe our sexual desires should not be words that carry any negative weight. Let’s stop using words like “nasty” and “freaky” to describe sex, because how can something pleases us be nasty and freaky. Describing sex this way, for me, takes the pleaures out of sex. Enjoy the sexual exploration and forget labeling sex as anything other than sex.
Sex is about exploration of bodies without the labels. Enjoy the sounds that your partner makes, enjoy the way they make you feel, and enjoy doing what pleases you. After all, it’s just sex.